Allworth financial advisor Jeremy Murray, CFP®, AIF®, CRPS®, explores mindset shifts that can help individuals embrace and enjoy their retirement years with a sense of purpose, freedom, and fulfillment.
Retirement is one of life’s biggest transitions. It’s a time we look forward to, but when it actually arrives, it can feel quite different than expected. For years, you’ve worked, saved, and planned—often focusing so much on the financial side that it’s easy to overlook the mental shift needed to truly enjoy this new chapter.
If you’re approaching retirement, here are a few mindset shifts that can help you transition smoothly and make the most of the years ahead.
We often talk about retirement as “leaving” or “ending” something, and that can make it feel final. But retirement isn’t just the end of work; it’s the beginning of a new chapter. Now you have the opportunity to pursue things you’ve always wanted to, whether that’s traveling, taking up new hobbies, or spending more time with family.
Instead of focusing on what you’re leaving behind, think about what you’re gaining. Reframe retirement as a time of possibility and growth. This shift in perspective can make the transition feel less daunting and a lot more exciting.
For many of us, work is more than a paycheck—it’s a source of identity, purpose, and daily structure. Stepping away from that can feel unsettling, and it’s common to wonder, “What’s next?” That’s why finding a new purpose or passion is key to a fulfilling retirement.
Ask yourself, “What gives me joy or satisfaction?” It could be anything from volunteering, mentoring, or even turning a hobby into a part-time endeavor. Finding purpose doesn’t have to be complicated—it just needs to give you a sense of meaning and direction each day.
After years of strict saving, it can feel unnatural to start spending down your retirement funds. But the reality is, that’s exactly what they’re for! Adopting a mindset of balance—knowing that your retirement savings are there to support the life you want—can help you feel comfortable with spending.
That said, keeping some flexibility in your budget will allow you to adapt as your lifestyle and priorities evolve. Maybe you’ll spend more in the early years while you’re active, and then slow down later. Whatever approach you take, remember that retirement is a time to enjoy what you’ve worked hard for.
Retirement isn’t the end of personal development. This is a chance to rediscover parts of yourself and try things you might not have had time for before. Whether it’s learning a new skill, reading more, or exploring an interest you’ve had on the back burner, retirement can be a season of growth.
Consider taking classes, joining clubs, or connecting with communities that encourage you to keep learning. Keeping your mind active is not only rewarding—it also helps to maintain mental health and keep your days interesting.
In the working world, we’re used to measuring success through achievements, deadlines, and promotions. Retirement shifts that focus. Now, success can look like having a relaxed day with family, pursuing a hobby, or spending a morning gardening. Success is simply living your life on your own terms.
When you stop comparing your retirement to someone else’s or to an old measure of “productivity,” it opens up the freedom to appreciate life in a new way. Whatever brings you joy, peace, and fulfillment is a worthy marker of success in retirement.
The freedom of retirement can feel incredible—no more early alarms, deadlines, or meetings. But a complete lack of routine can sometimes feel overwhelming. Many retirees find that they’re happiest with a loose structure in their day, even if it’s just setting aside time for exercise, social activities, or hobbies.
Establishing a routine that feels good to you can provide a comforting rhythm to your days. It doesn’t have to be rigid—just something that gives you a sense of purpose and keeps you connected to what matters most.
Shifting to a retirement mindset isn’t something that happens overnight. It’s a gradual process of letting go of old expectations and discovering what this new phase can bring. Remember, retirement is a time to do things on your own terms, at your own pace. By approaching it with a flexible, open mindset, you’re setting yourself up for a rich and rewarding retirement.
If you have any questions about planning for your retirement—whether financial or otherwise—please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here to support you in making this transition as smooth and fulfilling as possible