Allworth financial advisor Michael Coates, CFP®, explores how retirees can move from a fast-paced career to a fulfilling, intentional retirement by finding purpose, establishing a flexible routine, and embracing this new life chapter.
If you’re nearing retirement, you might be experiencing a mix of emotions—excitement, a touch of anxiety, maybe even a little disbelief. After years of running on high speed, the idea of slowing down can feel both thrilling and a bit daunting. Many of us go from structured routines and packed schedules to…well, a more open calendar, and it can be an adjustment.
But retirement doesn’t mean hitting the brakes on life; it’s about embracing a new pace that allows you to live with purpose. Think of it as an opportunity to design the life you’ve always envisioned—one that’s fulfilling, intentional, and tailored to what matters most to you.
Here’s a look at how to ease into this next chapter with confidence and intention.
One of the first things to consider is: what do you want this new chapter to look like? For many of us, work has been a huge part of our identity and sense of purpose. Without it, there’s a natural urge to ask, “What now?” The good news is, retirement can be a chance to reconnect with passions you may have put on hold or explore new ones.
Think about what gives you a sense of accomplishment or excitement. Maybe it’s volunteering, spending more time with family, or finally taking on that hobby you never had time for. Start small—try dedicating a few hours a week to something meaningful, and let it grow organically from there.
While retirement might mean fewer meetings and deadlines, many retirees find that a lack of structure can feel unsettling at first. Creating a loose routine can help you stay active, engaged, and balanced without feeling overly scheduled.
Try setting a framework for your days: mornings might be for exercise or reading, afternoons for hobbies or catching up with friends, and evenings for relaxation or family time. The beauty of retirement is that you’re free to adjust as you go, so your routine works for you—not the other way around.
With the busy career chapter behind you, retirement is an ideal time to focus on your health—both physical and mental. Incorporate activities that keep you moving, whether it’s regular walks, joining a fitness class, or even picking up a new sport. Physical activity isn’t just great for the body; it’s fantastic for the mind too.
Mental well-being is equally important, so don’t be afraid to explore mindfulness practices like meditation, journaling, or yoga. These practices can help you stay present, reduce stress, and feel more connected to each day’s purpose.
Just because you’re retiring doesn’t mean you’re done learning! Many retirees find joy in taking on new skills or diving into topics that have always piqued their interest. Consider joining a class, whether it’s cooking, photography, or even learning a new language. Not only does this keep your mind sharp, but it’s also a great way to meet new people and expand your social circle.
And don’t underestimate the power of reading—books, articles, or even podcasts can open doors to new ideas and keep your curiosity alive.
In your career, goals may have been attached to performance reviews, deadlines, or quarterly results. In retirement, goals can look a bit different. This is your chance to set goals that truly matter to you, without the pressure.
Your goals can be as simple or as ambitious as you like—maybe you want to visit five new places each year, start a garden, or reconnect with old friends. The key is to pursue things that genuinely bring you joy, so retirement feels like a period of growth rather than slowing down.
Retirement can sometimes feel a bit isolating if you’re no longer surrounded by colleagues each day. That’s why nurturing your relationships and building new connections is so important. Spend quality time with family, catch up with friends, and consider joining local clubs or interest groups where you can meet like-minded people.
Community involvement, volunteering, or even reconnecting with former colleagues can all bring a sense of camaraderie and purpose. Relationships often bring us the deepest joy, so prioritizing them can make this stage of life incredibly fulfilling.
Finally, remember that part of living intentionally means giving yourself permission to enjoy downtime. After years of working, it’s natural to feel like every moment has to be productive. But sometimes the best moments in retirement are the quiet ones—savoring a cup of coffee in the morning, enjoying a sunset, or simply taking a walk in nature.
Downtime isn’t a lack of purpose; it’s part of the experience. It allows you to recharge, reflect, and truly enjoy the life you’ve built.
Transitioning from a busy career to an intentional retirement is about redefining your time and rediscovering what brings you joy. Take it slow, allow yourself to try new things, and don’t worry if it takes time to find your rhythm. Retirement is a journey, not a destination, and each day offers the chance to live with intention, meaning, and a sense of purpose.
If you’re looking to explore what an intentional retirement could look like for you, I’m here to help you navigate the financial side of things so you can focus on what truly matters. Here’s to a fulfilling retirement and all the wonderful possibilities ahead!